The majority of my life I have been a people pleaser, it’s not right but that is just the way I
was. I wanted to fit in and be part of something, so the best way I thought was to just go
along with what they had to say and they would like me. It started at a young age and that
has been something I have struggled with, it’s just so easy to cave in and say yes, it also
prevents fights most of the time. I do not like confrontations because most of the time even
before it starts I feel like I lost the battle, so the easy route is to just do what they like. I
also listen to the song called Fat Funny Friend by Maddie Zahm, which basically
summarizes a lot of the reasons I have also become a people pleaser. I can say that I really
struggled more growing up and already having bad self-esteem does not help, but I am pretty
sure others can also agree with my feelings. Growing up to become the person I am now I
would say I have built boundaries and am trying to stand up more for my wishes and be
more happy.