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Marycruz May 26, 2026

Conditioned to People Please

For most of my life, I considered myself a people pleaser. I wanted to fit in, be liked, and avoid conflict, so agreeing with others often felt easier than speaking up for myself. Over time, I realized that constantly putting others first was affecting my self-esteem and preventing me from living authentically. Through self-reflection, personal growth, and learning to establish healthier boundaries, I am beginning to value my own voice and make choices that bring me genuine happiness rather than simply seeking approval from others.

Marycruz May 19, 2026

From Survival Mode to Abundance

For much of my life, I have found it easier to care for others than to care for myself. Whether it's speaking up for my needs, accepting compliments, or even buying something small that would make me happy, I often convince myself that I don't deserve it. Over time, I realized that constantly putting myself last was affecting my confidence and happiness. Learning to advocate for myself, challenge negative thoughts, and stop living according to other people's expectations has become an important part of my personal growth. This journey is about recognizing my own worth and giving myself permission to enjoy life without guilt or fear of judgment.

Marycruz April 28, 2026

Rewriting Our Self Image

There was a time when I hated looking at myself in the mirror. Instead of appreciating who I was, I focused on everything I believed was wrong with me. Looking back, I realize how unfair I was to the younger version of myself—a little girl who deserved kindness, confidence, and self-love. Today, I am learning to embrace my features, let go of unrealistic standards, and accept that there is only one version of me in this world. This journey is about more than appearance; it's about finding freedom, authenticity, and the confidence to be myself without fear of judgment.

Marycruz April 1, 2026

Do We Owe Our Parents Anything?

I am grateful for everything my parents have done for me, and I believe they played a role in many of my accomplishments. However, gratitude does not mean I owe them my entire life. While I value their wisdom and support, the decisions I make are ultimately mine. Success is something we work for ourselves, and true happiness comes from creating a life that aligns with our own values and dreams not simply living according to someone else's expectations.

Marycruz March 18, 2026

What our personality says about us (MBTI test)

After taking the MBTI personality test, I discovered I am an ISFP Introverted, Sensing, Feeling, and Perceiving. While some results felt spot-on and others were more nuanced, the experience encouraged me to reflect on how I make decisions, interact with others, and navigate life. Here's what being an ISFP means to me and why personality tests can be a fun way to better understand yourself.

Marycruz March 12, 2026

Lealtad Familiar vs. Propio Amor

For much of my life, I trusted my family completely and believed they always wanted the best for me. Over time, I learned that not everyone who is close to us will support our dreams or celebrate our successes. Sometimes, jealousy, criticism, and negativity can come from the people we least expect. While those realizations can be painful, they also teach us how to recognize the people who genuinely care about our well-being. Through life's challenges, I have learned that God often places new people in our path—people who encourage us, guide us, and eventually become family in their own way.

Marycruz February 10, 2026

Religion vs. Spirituality

My faith has always been an important part of my life, but my relationship with religion is more complex than simply attending church. Over the years, I have learned to separate my beliefs from the actions of others within religious communities. While negative experiences with people can sometimes make faith feel challenging, they have never taken away my connection with God. Instead, my spirituality and faith have helped me navigate difficult seasons, find guidance during uncertainty, and become the person I am today. This reflection explores the balance between faith, religion, and maintaining a personal relationship with God despite life's challenges.

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