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Page 2 of reflections and resources on healing, growth, and the first-gen experience.

Religion vs. Spirituality
Marycruz

Religion vs. Spirituality

My faith has always been an important part of my life, but my relationship with religion is more complex than simply attending church. Over the years, I have learned to separate my beliefs from the actions of others within religious communities. While negative experiences with people can sometimes make faith feel challenging, they have never taken away my connection with God. Instead, my spirituality and faith have helped me navigate difficult seasons, find guidance during uncertainty, and become the person I am today. This reflection explores the balance between faith, religion, and maintaining a personal relationship with God despite life's challenges.

The Invisible Weight of Being the Older Sibling
Marycruz

The Invisible Weight of Being the Older Sibling

Growing up with a younger sibling who is more than ten years younger than me has been both rewarding and challenging. Many older siblings naturally help care for their brothers and sisters, but sometimes that responsibility can become overwhelming. This experience, known as parentification, occurs when children take on parental roles within the family. While helping our families can strengthen sibling bonds, it's important to remember that older siblings also deserve the opportunity to enjoy their own childhood and receive support from their parents.